So we’ve all been in this situation before. Whether it’s out at a bar, in the doctor’s waiting room, or even at a business networking event, we’ve all ran into that person that won’t shut up. You meet them, say hello, ask them a question, and then it’s off to the races. In the next 10 minutes you learn everything you need to know about them including almost everything you didn’t want to know about them. They may even be a nice person that is somewhat interesting, but after 10 minutes straight you realize they are only interested in talking about themselves and you’re searching desperately for a way to get out of the conversation. You finally escape and all you can think is, “What a waste of 10 minutes”, but perhaps we should thank this person because they’ve just provided a great example for us to learn from.

When you are promoting your business, whether it be in person or through a direct advertising effort (print ad, video, web, etc.), you want to be able to categorize your efforts as attraction marketing. The goal should be to create enough interest with your target audience for them to take the next step towards doing business with you. The strongest indicator of interest from your audience are questions. Do they want to know more?
Like that random person at the bar, it can be easy to get carried away talking about yourself and your business, especially if you’re a passionate business owner who loves what you do. However, be attentive to your audience. Are they asking questions or are they looking for the nearest exit sign (or the email trash can, the stop button on the video, or the next page in the magazine)?
Instead of telling them anything and everything about your business, keep your efforts brief and focused. Engage them, ask them questions, and give them one or two unique ways that your business can help them. If they ask questions, pick up the phone, or write you an email, you’ve done your job. Remember, attraction marketing is all about creating interest. If you’re not creating interest, analyze your efforts and see if you are becoming that random person at the bar.

